As parent’s you want to give the world to your children, and do everything in your power to do so. Unfortunately those precedents that are set when they’re children can carry on well into adulthood, except the $20 toys turn into $20,000 cars, the braces turn into wedding dresses, the family vacations into lavish weddings. As much as you may be willing to continue to shoulder their financial load, you have to take your own survival and retirement plan into consideration. So how can you break out of this cycle of giving? Just say no.